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What is a Coping Mechanism?

Alcohol abuse and dependence can often arise from the use of alcohol as a coping mechanism. American culture celebrates alcohol as a way to unwind after a hard day at work, drown sorrow in hard times, and as a social lubricant in all sorts of situations.

However, using alcohol as a catch-all way to balance out emotional experience or become less present has some real consequences.

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Who Uses Alcohol as a Coping Mechanism?

People from all walks of life use alcohol as a coping mechanism, from business people stressed by a heavy workload, to college students overwhelmed by social anxiety, to veterans suffering from PTSD. People with a family history of alcoholism may be more prone to using alcohol as a coping method because alcohol may have been the method used by parents or relatives.

Individuals who use alcohol to cope may not be equipped with adaptive coping skills that help to work through challenges rather than mask them. With a lack of healthy coping mechanisms, anxiety, depression, and other mental health disorders are not uncommon among people who use alcohol to cope.

14.4 million adults or 9% of the population have alcohol use disorder

Dangers of Alcohol Use as a Coping Mechanism


Whether or not substance abuse and/or addiction run in your family, all people experience increased tolerance for alcohol the more and longer that they drink. More alcohol is required to achieve the same effect.

In extreme cases of physical dependence on alcohol, a person can become so addicted that they experience withdrawal symptoms without the substance, such as tremors, sweating, insomnia, headaches and more. Alcohol withdrawal can be fatal in severe cases.


Damage to Relationships.

Using alcohol as a coping mechanism tends to have consequences in relationships. At best, it has a tendency to create distance between loved ones. At worst, it can contribute to anger, fighting, and irresponsible behavior in relationships.


Failure to develop alternate coping skills.

If a person is constantly using alcohol to, for example, avoid feelings of sadness and loneliness, they may fail to develop other ways of managing this distress, such as developing close relationships, practicing mindfulness, or seeking help from a mental health professional.

Alcohol becomes a crutch and a barrier to developing more adaptive or effective coping strategies.

Developing Alternate Coping Skills

One of the most effective ways of addressing alcohol dependence and abuse that arises from using alcohol as a coping mechanism is to develop other effective coping mechanisms. Rather than simply resolving to “stop drinking,” which removes one coping skill without replacing it with another, it is important to have other skills in place.

After all, you were drinking for a reason, so it’s important to address that reason and find other ways to meet the need it filled. Some examples of alternate coping skills include:

  • Reaching out to others for comfort and support
  • Physical activity like walking, swimming, sports
  • Mindfulness practices like meditation or yoga
  • Distraction, like watching TV or listening to music
  • Learning and practicing social skills to address social anxiety
  • Talking to a therapist
  • Breathing techniques
  • Making art
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Finding the Root of the Problem

Finding a sustainable solution to alcohol abuse and addiction requires a good understanding of what drives the problem and what exactly you are using it to “cope” with. This often requires doing some introspective work and addressing topics that may be vulnerable, like past trauma, a high-stress lifestyle, or feelings of low self-worth.

Some of the ways that people may explore and address what is driving their use of alcohol as a coping mechanism include:

Alcohol Abuse & Addiction Treatment

If you are questioning whether you or your loved one uses alcohol as a coping mechanism, don’t hesitate to reach out to us. Talking to a professional can help you determine the extent to which you use alcohol as a crutch, and the negative impacts it might be having on you.

They can help you determine whether this is something you might need support in addressing. Sandstone Care has a full continuum of care options for adolescents and young adults seeking treatment for alcohol abuse and alcoholism including a medical detox program.

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